Marriage-focused matchmaking

Marriage Is the Goal. Let's Make It Intentional.

Meet people who are ready to build a future, not just pass the time. Introduce yourself in 20 seconds, discover compatible partners, and connect when the intention is mutual.

Find My Life Partner How It Works

Free to join and browse. Each member pays ₦5,000 only when an accepted engagement activates.

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Abuja · Accountant

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How it works

Four steps, one intention

Step 1
Introduce yourself in 20 seconds
Record one short video: your first name, what you do, where you live, when you hope to marry, and who you're looking for.
Step 2
Discover compatible members
Your feed is ranked by marriage timeline, age, location, family goals, faith and values — with the reasons explained.
Step 3
Reach out for free
Send a reach-out with an optional note. The other member watches your video and decides. No charge for either of you.
Step 4
Connect when it's mutual
When a reach-out is accepted and both wallets can cover the fee, the engagement activates and your private conversation opens.

Video-first

Why a short video instead of a written bio?

Your voice says more than a paragraph ever could.

Real and personal

Hear how someone speaks, what matters to them and how they describe their future.

Consistent and fair

Everyone answers the same five things, so you can compare intentions honestly.

Harder to fake

A spoken introduction is harder to copy than text. Every video is reviewed by our team before it appears.

A reviewed video does not prove identity, occupation, marital status or sincerity — that is why identity verification is a separate badge.

Compatibility

Discovery built around marriage readiness

We rank members by how well your stated intentions and preferences align, and tell you why.

Marriage timeline alignment
Age preferences — in both directions
Location and openness to relocating
Children and family expectations
Faith and lifestyle
Shared values, career and household expectations

Requirements you mark as firm — such as an age range or faith — are respected in both directions: you won't be shown to people outside them, and they won't be shown to you.

A compatibility score summarises stated preferences. It is not a scientific prediction of marital success, and we only show it when there is enough information.

Pay per engagement

You only pay when the interest is mutual

Pay only for a mutual connection

₦5,000

per member, per successful engagement

• No compulsory subscription.
• Both members pay the same fee — only when a reach-out is accepted and the engagement activates.
• The fee is shown to both members before they confirm.
• Messages within an active engagement are free, however many you send.
• Fund your wallet only when you are ready. Suggested minimum deposit: ₦5,000.

Always free

✓Registering and building your profile
✓Recording your video introduction
✓Browsing compatible members
✓Watching video introductions
✓Sending a reach-out
✓Receiving a reach-out
✓Saying “I'm not interested”
✓Leaving a request unanswered
✓Blocking or reporting a member
✓Messaging in an active engagement

If either member's wallet does not have enough for the fee, neither member is charged and the conversation stays closed until both have topped up. Requests that expire, are withdrawn or become invalid are cancelled without any charge.

Trust & safety

Privacy and safety by design

Private videos

Stored privately and streamed through short-lived links to signed-in members only.

Identity verification

Optional document checks reviewed by our team, shown as a separate badge.

Transparent wallet

Every naira is recorded in your ledger. We never ask you to pay another member.

Report & block

One tap to block or report. Reporters are never identified to the reported member.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Why a 20-second video instead of a written profile?

Hearing someone introduce themselves — their name, what they do, where they live, when they hope to marry and who they are looking for — tells you far more than a paragraph. It also discourages copy-and-paste profiles. There are no written biographies on MarriageOrNothing.

Does a reviewed video prove someone is who they say they are?

No. “Video Profile Reviewed” means our team checked the video meets our standards. It does not prove identity, occupation, marital status or sincerity. “Identity Verified” is a separate badge given only after an identity document has been checked. Always use good judgement and follow our safety guidelines.

When exactly am I charged?

Only when a reach-out is accepted and the engagement is successfully activated. At that moment ₦5,000 is deducted from each member's wallet in a single transaction. Sending, receiving, browsing, declining and unanswered requests are free.

What if the other person doesn't have enough money in their wallet?

Nobody is charged. The accepted request waits until both wallets have enough, and the member who needs to top up is told. Once both have funds, the activation is checked again (including blocks and eligibility) before anyone is charged.

How long does a reach-out stay open?

Unanswered reach-outs expire after 14 days with no charge to anyone.

Can I get a refund?

Refunds are reviewed by our team for duplicate charges, confirmed fraud or impersonation, and technical failures that prevented a conversation. Discovering that you are not compatible with a genuine member is not, on its own, grounds for a refund. Wallet withdrawals are not available in this version; see the Terms for details.

Ready to meet someone who wants the same future?

Create your account, record your 20-second introduction and start discovering compatible members — no deposit needed to begin.

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